Marital & Premarital Counseling We believe romance is a gift from God. And we belief that there's nothing more romantic than a man and woman who feel totally safe and "at home" with one another. Whether you're married, engaged, or dating, we're here to help you develop a secure bond to last a lifetime. We know it's not always easy. Despite their best efforts, many couples who come to us are currently struggling with recurring arguments that circle around a few key triggers and issues. Oftentimes, just knowing that you are not alone in this can bring new hope. Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) is a structured, short-term (8-20 sessions) approach; and if it's a good fit for you, we'll hang in there with you as long as you need our help. The process of building (or reestablishing) a secure bond involves assessment, cycle de-escalation, re-engagement, and consolidation. NOTE: Weekly sessions are 75 minutes in length. Research shows that these longer sessions are more productive for couples. Assessment & Cycle De-escalation No two couples are alike, and we want to get to know each of your unique personalities, learn how you interact as a couple, and help you find the best ways to be responsive to one another. So you and your partner will receive a thorough assessment of your individual and relational dynamics at the beginning of counseling. Part 1: You and your partner will meet together to explore the issues that bring you to counseling. NOTE: Before the session begins, you will be asked to complete the forms below. (If you prefer, you may download the forms now, print, complete, and bring them with you to your first session.) Couple Information Consent for Couples Therapy Consultation Release of Confidentiality for Couple Therapy Part 2: Your second session will be split between you and your partner. Prior to your second appointment, you will need to complete the Life Functioning Inventory. (You may download it now, respond to the questions, and bring the completed form with you.) While your counselor is meeting with your spouse, you will be completing the Couple Assessment Questionnaires, which will be provided when you arrive for your appointment. Part 3: Your counselor will meet with you both to review the results of your assessment and answer any questions you may have about the counseling process and and your goals. If EFT is a good fit for you, you will continue with the process of cycle de-escalation. Re-engagement & Consolidation It feels pretty good when arguments don't happen as often, and you begin to enjoy one another more. When you're ready, we'll help you move into the last two stages of growing your relationship. By completing the process, you can help assure your continued growth and the enjoyment of your relationship, not just for today, but for the rest of your life!