Living with Uncertainty

two kinds of men

It’s a fact. There are two kinds of men: those who are unsure of themselves, and those who hide the fact that they are unsure of themselves. Some are more successful at hiding than others, using one of two tactics: withdrawal, which gives the impression they just don’t care, or anger, giving the impression you […]

How to Change a Man

Husband Improvement - Part 1

You’ve probably heard the saying that when a man marries a woman he’s hoping she’ll never change, whereas a woman marries a man hoping that he will. It’s actually more than a hope for her. He may actually be her Main Project. But men are not projects. They are people. I don’t like to be […]

How to Stop the Lies

best of all

There’s a Love Story inside each of us. Our Heavenly Father put it there Himself.  However, the father of lies has been messing with our minds since … well, for a very long time.  He tells us that we’re not lovable and/or that other people don’t or won’t love us.  And he gets away with […]

Visibly Shaken

a few moments can change everything

Beginning where we left off last time … No wonder she escaped so often … sometimes to neighbors’.  Sometimes to her only friend’s house.  Mostly to her church.  She felt safe at church.  She knew it’s where she belonged. When she was younger and lived on the other side of town, she’d ridden the Sunday […]

How Not to Fit In

Once upon a time ...

Every woman has a story.  Do you know hers?  Is it happy or sad?  glorious or painful?  How does her vulnerability show up today?  How do you respond to her vulnerability? She was 14 and alone. The kitchen sink was full of sewage. No one knew, but her … and the Lord. Junior high had […]