Who’s leading?

In other words, who wears the pants? In a marriage relationship, leadership flows from Christ to husband, then from husband to wife. That thought inspires confidence, eh? However, you can’t lead if no one is willing to follow you. So if the woman you love is running the show, it’s time to … ask how […]

Vulnerable or Powerful?

living in love on the battlefield

Christian Marriage can be the most vulnerable or the most powerful force in the clash between two kingdoms. First, you need to know what the fight is really about. In other words, an accurate assessment of the situation is essential for determining the best course toward the preferred outcome.


In the Beginning, man was given dominion over the earth. And he was given a beautiful bride. A sweet companion to love & adore, to pursue & protect. He was not given dominion over his bride. His desire to dominate her was part of the curse, remember? God’s original intent was for that first couple […]

Dust & Diety

You have been created in the image of God & given Divine Purpose. The perfect combination of Dust & Diety, you are here to re-present your Creator & to bring His Goodness to the Earth, thereby destroying the works of evil. And that’s how you become a hero. Then The Lord God formed a man […]

It’s Finally Here!

I encourage you to use Ephesians 5 Romance in Daily Devotions with your bride. I recommend each mate have his/her own copy to highlight & take notes in the margins for further study & discussion. Men need to take the lead. You will make your bride feel safe, loved & cherished as you demonstrate your […]