How to Live Undaunted & Filled with Wisdom

You have a dream for your life. God actually gave it to you Himself. His desire is that you would live undaunted. That is, He does not want you to be intimidated or discouraged by difficulty, danger, or disappointment. However, life often feels like everything is going against you. You’re in a battle. A battle […]

3 Reasons I Hate Going to Church on Father’s Day

the psychology of men and fatherhood

My own father was absent from my life for 37 years. Five months after we finally reconnected, he died of a heart attack. But it’s not personal sadness that makes me shy away from church on Father’s Day. It’s what I learned about men after my father passed away. And I cannot bear to sit […]

No More Striving

A PRAYER: I’m done with striving, Lord. No more of that. I throw myself at Your feet. Shower me here with Your Goodness. I need You. I believe You are Good & will never put me to shame because I need more. I don’t want what You have for someone else. Only what you have […]

Row or Sail?

Are you rowing your marriage boat? Being a husband takes effort. Learning what to say & how to say it & when. Building (or restoring) a marriage based on psychology is like rowing. Possible. But full of self-effort. Exhausting.

Who’s leading?

In other words, who wears the pants? In a marriage relationship, leadership flows from Christ to husband, then from husband to wife. That thought inspires confidence, eh? However, you can’t lead if no one is willing to follow you. So if the woman you love is running the show, it’s time to … ask how […]