What’s really going on?

Men frequently misread and are confused about women’s intentions. Women also misread their men by filtering everything they see and hear through a negative filter. So we both need to slow down and listen differently.

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How to Stop Fighting

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Most couples have a “negative cycle” whether or not your arguments seem “out of control.” Learn how & when your negative cycle got started, plus how you can begin to change it in this brief video.


► Learn more in How to Resolve Couple Conflict.

  • Resolve conflict.
  • Break the negative cycle.
  • Create connection.

These are the same steps I’ve used in counseling couples and training other counselors for more than 20 years.

A Feminine Warrior

God said, “It is not good for man to be alone.”

So He created woman.

What was He thinking when He put them there in that Beautifully Perfect Garden?

He knew there was going to be a battle against evil & that they would need to fight together.

Unfortunately, they didn’t. They caved in to deception. But we know better now, right?

God’s thought is still a good thing … for men & for women.

Because a woman is God’s feminine warrior, strong & uniquely designed to fight beside her man, not against him.

LEARN HOW TO FIGHT