I encourage you to use Ephesians 5 Romance in Daily Devotions with your bride.
I recommend each mate have his/her own copy to highlight & take notes in the margins for further study & discussion.
Men need to take the lead.
You will make your bride feel safe, loved & cherished as you demonstrate your consistent desire to care for her emotionally & spiritually. You will also build your confidence as a leader! So set aside a time to read aloud a chapter each day & engage in discussion.