You have a perspective on where you are now. In your relationship. And in your life. So does your mate. They never line up perfectly. If they did, one of you wouldn’t be necessary.
You may suspect that The Lord’s point of view is different than either of yours. It’s not that you and your mate are totally wrong about life. You just have a limited view of what’s really happening. Not only in The Natural World. But especially in the Spiritual Realm.
The Holy Spirit wants to help you change that.
“For my thoughts are not your thoughts,
neither are your ways my ways,” declares the Lord.
“As the heavens are higher than the earth,
so are my ways higher than your ways
and my thoughts than your thoughts.” Isaiah 55:8-9
“Call to me and I will answer you and tell you great and unsearchable things you do not know.” Jeremiah 33:3
I keep asking that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the glorious Father, may give you the Spirit of wisdom and revelation, so that you may know him better. Ephesians 1:17