Who’s leading?

In other words, who wears the pants? In a marriage relationship, leadership flows from Christ to husband, then from husband to wife. That thought inspires confidence, eh?

However, you can’t lead if no one is willing to follow you.

So if the woman you love is running the show,
it’s time to …
  • ask how that happened &
  • learn to turn it around.

In the process, you must reconcile your call to leadership with this:

The man was not created because the woman needed him;
the woman was created because the man needed her.
1 CORINTHIANS 11:9

I know it’s not your style to ask for directions.
Nevertheless, let me know if you could use extra
encouragement on this … because I’m here to help.