Your love story matters. It matters because it belongs to you. It’s what you know and where you live. Mostly, it matters to God. What happened to you growing up matters because it’s how you learned about Life and Love … and God. Your story has taught you a lot about who you are, and…
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For Unto Us a Child is Born
You know, I don’t believe The Father uses people. Instead He writes Himself into their Love Story. Everything had changed for Joseph and Mary. And The Father never forgot that they were made of dust. In fact, He chose to become dust Himself. We can only imagine how This Beautiful Love Story unfolded. The…
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How to Help a Woman Overcome Her Fears
For the last several years running, the most popular post on my Psychology of Men blog has been “Why Do Men Stonewall?” Stonewalling is withdrawing or refusing to respond to your partner. For him, it may be a response to his own confusion or feeling overwhelmed when she’s upset. Or he may just try to…
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Anxious & Frustrated
Are you feeling anxious and frustrated? Most couples who seek help are. A few years ago, a young couple came into my office for their first session of marriage counseling, and right away I could tell that the husband didn’t want to be there. He took one look at me, and by the expression on…
Read MoreA Self-Fulfilling Prophecy
If you’re in a not-so-good place right now, you’ve got plenty of company. Many of us have been where you are at one time or another – myself included. The Truth is that we always end up where we are because of what we believe … about ourselves and our mates … or future mates….
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