Winners and Losers in Marriage

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Most every couple I’ve ever worked with have the same bottom line issue. They don’t really think the other person cares for them that much. They base that belief on their partner’s external behavior that gets translated into their own internal experience.

However, external behavior is often defensive. It can be very guarded. When behavior is defensive, it muddies the water about what’s really going on inside.

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