Can You Change a Man?

As noted in my last post, many of a woman's strategies for husband improvement backfire. Instead making the change(s) she desires, he becomes more defensive. Withdrawn. Perhaps angry and...

Husband Improvement – Part 2

Most women have developed a whole series of actions they believe will be motivating & encouraging for their men (husbands & sons, in particular). But most of the time, their guys stay the...

How to Change a Man

You’ve probably heard the saying that when a man marries a woman he’s hoping she’ll never change, whereas a woman marries a man hoping that he will. It’s often more than a hope for her. He...

Living with Uncertainty

It's a fact. There are two kinds of men: those who are unsure of themselves, and those who hide the fact that they are unsure of themselves. Some are more successful at hiding than others,...

The Beauty of Different

The following comment was recently posted in response to "embracing the dance" that I had shared on my social media pages: "I don’t agree with the premise that women want the men to lead." I...

My Moment of Truth

It's true that my father was absent from my life for 37 years. And that my first two marriages ended in divorce. For years I believed all of that was totally my fault. Later in life, I started...