Because Every Heroine Deserves a Hero.
The issue of, of women and anger in a relationship is a very confusing one for a lot of men. When they see their wives upset with them, all they know is that she is angry. They never think to look past that anger to what might be underneath all of that. And what I found is that most of the time, what looks like anger on the surface is actually just panic.
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More on Couple Communication: How to Resolve Couple Conflict
Men and women use language differently, and that probably affects your couple communication more than you realize. Because you respond to what you think you heard, which is not necessarily what your mate was saying.
In the video below, you will learn the importance of understanding your mate’s Bottom Line Question.
And once you know the real question behind the question, you’ll greatly increase the probability that you will automatically give the answer he/she is hoping for.
To answer before listening –
that is folly and shame. ~ PROVERBS 18:13
Do you wish you were married to a different man? Or could change the one you have? You’ve probably heard the saying that when a man marries a woman he’s hoping she’ll never change, whereas a woman marries a man hoping that he will. It’s actually more than a hope for her. He may actually be her Main Project.
But men are not projects. They are people.
I don’t like to be the bearer of bad tidings, ladies, but God only created one perfect man thus far. And he’s required nearly six decades to refine!
On the Bright Side, however, if the Lord is doing such a great job on this one, I believe He can do the same with your guy! Your man can be so much more, and you can actually help him become Your Fearless Leader in the Dance of Romance!
Simply put, it’s a woman’s job to love her man and pray for him. It’s God’s job to make him grow … and according to His plan, not hers. PROVERBS 3:5
Your man wants to be your Leader in the Dance of Romance … to protect you and to guide you and to hold you … to choreograph the Dance to maximize your pleasure in being with him.
But much of the time we’re shooting ourselves in the foot by doing all the things that don’t work to change him … instead of doing things that do work to change him … things that he actually wants you to do to shape his behavior! Go figure.