Helping Couples Grow

A Simple Guide for Working With Couples

Saving Marriages. Many pastors, marriage ministry leaders, coaches, and mental health professionals share that mission. However, can we save all marriages? Obviously not. Dr. Debi, founder of the Inst...

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Helping Couples Grow

Dr. Debi talks about the most important factors to keep in mind when you're looking for marriage help. She also introduces the Institute for Relationship Development which supports the "helpers" who a...

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Why So Many Wives Seem to Be Angry All the Time

Why do so many wives look and sound angry? An angry wife can be very confusing to her husband — mostly because he doesn’t understand what’s really going on in the moment. He doesn’t realize that she u...

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Making Sense of a Woman — a Husband's Guide

A woman isn’t nearly as complicated as her husband thinks she is. Honestly, almost everything she struggles with in her marriage — as even she would admit — is related to one of these three things. 

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The Beauty of a Woman — The Psychology of Femininity

Most men readily admit that they don’t understand women. In fact, no one has ever been able to explain a woman to a man in a way that he can completely grasp. Even the most famous psychiatrist of all ...

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Disconnected Husband? Try This Experiment

If she's like most women, she has a long and ever-growing to-do list that constantly plays in her head like a relentless drill sergeant.

On a typical day, she kicks into high gear the moment she walk...

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What Does a Good Husband Want from His Wife?

What does a husband really want from his wife?

A man may not say this out loud.
In fact, he may not even consciously articulate it to himself.

But his efforts are not random. They are directional....

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Making Sense of a Husband's Behavior

A woman is often confused by her husband’s behavior.
This is especially true when they’re not getting along.

When she can’t understand why he does what he does instead of what she thinks he should do...

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The Making of a Man: Nature and Nurture

There's real wonder in a man, not because he's flawless, but because he has an amazingly intricate design.

In the first episode in the series "The Wonder of a Man," Dr. Debi explores the biological f...

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The Marriage Trap: Where to Begin When It Seems You Can't Win

If you're feeling trapped in your marriage, and nothing you've tried has worked, chances are it's not due to a lack of effort. It’s simply because one essential piece of the puzzle has been missing.

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The Quiet Drift That Happens Before Couples Realize Something Is Wrong

Most couples don’t realize how disconnection begins. In this episode, Dr. Debi explains how small, overlooked moments create patterns over time — leading to the quiet drift that happens long before co...

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How to Rediscover Hope When Marriage Feels Rocky

Something in your marriage feels off — but you can’t quite explain it.

There’s no major crisis.
Nothing obviously “wrong.”

And yet…

The connection isn’t what it used to be.
Conversations feel harder....

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