A Man’s Marriage Manual by Dr. Debi Smith

Men and women are different.
- When a man does something that doesn’t make sense to his wife, she thinks he’s wrong.
- When a woman does something that doesn’t make sense to her husband, he gives up.
I believe a Man has The Power to change both those outcomes!
What do I have to say to men?
No, I’m not going to teach you how to be a man.
I’ve never been a man, so I’d have no idea where to begin. However, I am well-qualified to teach you about your wife and how you can create a more productive partnership with her. In this book, you will learn about The Territory and The Language … and get The Map.
















A Quick Start Guide to Understanding Women
a Man’s Marriage Manual
TABLE OF CONTENTS
Part 1, The Power of Confidence:
You Were Born to Be a Hero
“Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.” JOSHUA 1:9
You are created with Divine Purpose to be a confident and compassionate leader. You are also a vulnerable human being. That doesn’t make you powerless. It makes you passionate. And that’s a very good thing.
- The Power of Emotion
- The Power of Vision
- The Power of Choice
Part 2, The Power of Compassion:
Making Sense of the Woman You Married,
“He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from The Lord.” PROVERBS 18:22
Your goal is not to change her, nor to become like her, but to appreciate who she is as a vulnerable human being with different strengths, resources, and goals that are designed to complement, rather than compete with your own.
- Making Sense of Feminine Territory
- Making Sense of Feminine Language
- Following The Map Made for Men
Part 3, The Power of Choice:
Practical Solutions and Effective Strategies
“I have set before you life and death, blessings and curses. Now choose life, so that you and your children may live and that you may love The Lord your God, listen to His voice, and hold fast to Him.” DEUTERONOMY 30:19-20
Approach common marital challenges with renewed confidence and deeper compassion. Each challenge explores three step-by-step paths you can take. The choice will be yours.
- How to Win Back Your Girl
- How to Communicate With Your Wife
- How to End an Argument on a Positive Note
- How to Improve Your Sexual Relationship
- How to Pray with Your Wife and Why
- Three Things You Should Never Do and Why
- How to Win Bonus Points