Walking with Jesus
should make a difference.

Not only in the EverAfter.
But also in the HereAndNow.

You are certain that He has called you to live an Abundant Life in Him & to do His will on Earth as it is in Heaven.

But your marriage isn’t going well & you’re not sure what to do.

  • You need an advisor who knows Scripture, but won’t judge you.
  • To hear your story & understand what you’re going through.
  • Someone who gets how difficult life can be.

Mostly, you need Solutions that are Realistic, Practical,
& Respectful of your God-given Gender Differences!


Why Do I Care?

Because I know how hard it is to find the right help.

My life didn’t go according to my plan either. I was raised in a single-parent home, & I ended up raising Three Amazing Sons as a single mom.

And because I didn’t want my sons to go through what our family had endured repeatedly for generations (see My Journey), I learned everything I could about Men & Marriage.

Now you can get all the benefits from what I’ve learned over the years
& have successfully taught to many other men & women.

It’s time to restore all that has been lost.

When things aren’t going well, identifying the Real Problem is key.
Otherwise, you’ll try using a hammer where a screwdriver is needed.

  1. First, we need to define your dreams & where you believe you got stuck.
  2. Then we’ll formulate a personalized plan to help get you back on track.
  3. I’ll be here help you, step by step, it until you’ve got it!

Yes! Dreams Really Do Come True!

You have turned my mourning into dancing!

The Lord is on your side. And so am I.
He is Your Guide. I’ll help you with the particulars. Together we can make this happen!

“I know the plans I have for you. They will stretch you. They are stretching you now.

“My plans are for your good and the only way you will be truly happy.

“Trust me. You are more dear and precious to me than you realize.

“I put those desires in your heart, and I am the only one who can fulfill them.

“Walk closely to me.
You cannot screw this up.
You cannot even delay it when you become fearful because I’m at work in your anxious times, too.

“Do not let shame rule over you.
Do not listen to those lies.

“I will turn your mourning into dancing.

“You will face challenges, and you will overcome them all.

“Watch me. Watch what I do next. You’re going to love this one! Love, Papa” Excerpt From: Dr. Debi Smith. Ephesians 5 Romance: the Truth about Love

Remember … You Only Have One Enemy

And it’s not your mate. (EPHESIANS 6:12)

You also know that if things keep going like they have been … well, life is not going to get any easier for either of you.

What Others Are Saying

A Grateful Heart

“I thank God for leading us to you and your sincere, knowledgeable and anointed spirit and teaching! From you, we’ve each learned a lot about each other, about communication, and in better understanding each others’ emotions.

“More importantly, I believe your teaching (and your “person”) has been instrumental in each of us strengthening our relationships with God (most importantly, my Husband’s). We cannot be thankful enough for you saving our marriage (would seem almost impossible to most), and also to restoring it to much better than before the separation! We love you.” ~ Mr. & Mrs. M

More testimonials …

Why not do it now?

You may also want to know that I earned my Doctor of Psychology (PsyD) at Rosemead School of Psychology-Biola University & am a Licensed Psychologist [PSY21711].

My Clinical Office is located on the border of Los Angeles & Ventura counties in Southern California.

I also offer TeleHealth to residents of California.
[Learn about TeleHealth here.]


If you meet criteria for a clinical diagnosis, insurance claims can be filed for Professional Services (i.e., individual and/or family therapy).

  • I am an in-network provider with Blue Shield of California & the Blue Card Program.
  • All other insurance claims can be filed for out-of-network benefits.

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A Good Man

You’re a good man. A very good man. So don’t believe anyone who tries to tell you differently. Not even yourself! Because Jesus … has given you His Righteousness 2 CORINTHIANS 5:21, showers you daily with blessings from above PSALM 34:8, and appointed you to be His representative on earth 1 JOHN 4:17 Be strong …