Love Never Gives Up

Are you walking through the Shadowlands?

These times are tough. The road is long & lonely. Shootings. Fires. Politics.

You dream of a safe haven. A place where you can rest & restore your strength.

But even your home is a place of frequent conflict & confusion.
You feel like you must be on your guard there as well.

It doesn’t have to be that way!

You were born for this time. To be a hero. To fight & win this battle.

Three Steps to Victory!

Step One: Assess the situation. You must correctly identify the problem before you can create an effective Battle Plan.

  • What holds you back from living & enjoying the Abundant Life Jesus promised?
  • What strategy is the enemy using to distract & destroy you?

You can be sure he’ll always go for your vulnerability
& equally sure that’s right where the Holy Spirit
has plans to build you up.

Step Two: Formulate your Battle Plan. It needs to address the problem at multiple levels:

  • From within to bring your healing, growth, & strength-building.
  • From without to give you more effective strategies to deal with your spouse, family, & work.

Step Three: Enlist someone who can walk through it with you step-by-step until you’ve got it.

Dr, Debi – like her Old Testament namesake – is here to help you develop your effective Battle Plan.

Rise up, warrior!

It’s time to restore the years the locusts have eaten!

Because, if things keep going like they have been … well, life is not going to get any better for anyone.

Even though you walk
through the Shadowlands,
You need not fear evil,
for The Lord is with you. PSALM 23

The Lord is saying, “My grace is sufficient for you,
because My power is made perfect in your weakness.”

Why Do I Care?

Because I know how hard it is to find the right help.

My life didn’t go according to my plan either. I was raised in a single-parent home & ended up raising Three Amazing Sons as a single mom.

And because I didn’t want my sons to go through what our family had endured repeatedly for generations (see My Journey), I learned everything I could about Men & Marriage.

Now you can get all the benefits from what I’ve learned over the years & have successfully taught to many other men & women.

It’s time to restore all that has been lost.

What Others Are Saying

A Grateful Heart

“I thank God for leading us to you and your sincere, knowledgeable and anointed spirit and teaching! From you, we’ve each learned a lot about each other, about communication, and in better understanding each others’ emotions.

“More importantly, I believe your teaching (and your “person”) has been instrumental in each of us strengthening our relationships with God (most importantly, my Husband’s). We cannot be thankful enough for you saving our marriage (would seem almost impossible to most), and also to restoring it to much better than before the separation! We love you.”

~ Jackson & Chalaun

More testimonials …

The Help You’ve Been Hoping For

The Bottom Line

I’ve never felt compelled to teach a man how to be a man. However, I can help you understand & love your woman in ways you’ve never considered. What you learn are simple solutions to make her smile & inspire you to become all that God has called you to be … with her by your side.

I offer TeleHealth for California residents, from Siskiyou & Shasta to San Diego & everywhere in between. [Learn about TeleHealth here.]

You may also want to know that I earned my Doctor of Psychology (PsyD) at Rosemead School of Psychology-Biola University & am a California Licensed Psychologist (PSY21711).

Professional Fees

TeleHealth is generally much less expensive than traditional face-to-face psychotherapy. Please contact me to ask about my current fee schedule.


If you meet criteria for a clinical diagnosis and have out-of-network benefits for outpatient mental health services via TeleHealth, I will be happy to file insurance claims for reimbursement. However, full payment is due at time of service.

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