Digital Resources by Dr. Debi

These informative resources were created for strong, smart women … like you!

Each is filled with helpful info that I have gleaned from a lifetime of studying men & marriages.

  • Quick Start Guide to Understanding Men
  • The Wonder of a Man
  • Why Won’t He Talk to Me?

For the first half of my life,
 I was thoroughly confused by men.

Then I started studying men from a different angle: as a Psychologist and Couples Counselor.

I was amazed by what I learned: It’s really all about the girl! Who knew, right?

This Quick Start Guide covers 7 essentials from what I’ve learned over the past two decades. I hope you find it useful in your own quest to love – and be loved by – the man of your dreams.

This workbook for women covers the following topics:

  1. Living with Uncertainty
  2. Sensitive & Complex
  3. Breaking the Rules
  4. His Divine Purpose
  5. The Language of Men
  6. How to Get an Upgrade
  7. How to Encourage His Leadership

Quick Start Guide
to Understanding Men

This workbook is your short cut to understanding him better.


Men are a mystery.

They believe women are the big mystery, but I disagree.

Women are easy to understand. At least, women are easy for another woman to understand.

But who can explain men to us?

Certainly not men. They believe there is nothing to tell. But there is a lot to tell! And the purpose of this book is to help you make sense of the man you love.

Far too many of women are clueless about how a man thinks, what he feels, and why he does the things he does.

I’m on a mission to change that.

The Wonder of a Man

What he thinks, how he feels, & why he does what he does. Simple explanations of a highly complex person.


Does the man you love …

  • withdraw and refuse to face issues?
  • have problems being open about things?
  • frequently misunderstand what you’re saying?

If you’re like many women, you probably take this to mean that men …

  • are insensitive jerks
  • don’t have feelings
  • are only interested in one thing
  • or just don’t get it

Have you tried everything you can think of to make your relationship work?

There’s still hope, so don’t give up until after you’ve read and practiced these strategies!

FYI … I speak two languages.

I know from personal experience that we women can have a hard time getting the man we love to understand us.

So, naturally, I speak “female.”

As a mother, I’ve spent a lot of time studying the male experience. It’s been a joy to watch my boys grow into men, marry, and become parents themselves. They’ve taught me a lot, and I’m still learning from them.

I’ve also studied the “Psychology Men and Traditional Masculinity,” and taught a university class on this very popular subject. What I’ve learned is that most women don’t have a clue about men’s experience, and that most men don’t know how to explain it.

So I’ve also learned to speak “male.”

Why Won’t He Talk to Me?

Whether you are married, engaged, dating, or single, you will find this info meaningful and helpful in your own relationships with men.