You’re not alone

The Lord knew we’d mess things up. That’s why He had a plan from The Beginning. He knew that, left to ourselves – that is, in our flesh – we’d become self-focused. Try to manipulate and control life – and other people – to meet our own needs.

Yet your current needs are normal and healthy.

Because The Lord Himself gave you those needs. And He wants to fulfill them. In fact, He gave His Son so that your needs could be fully met through Him.

His plan for your life is mystical, to be sure. You’re not of this world.
And it can seem magical at times. But God doesn’t do magic.
He’s very practical and loves the everyday details.

The most important example is a man’s need for companionship. (Genesis 2:18)

  • From a fleshly perspective, a man may use a woman to meet his own needs. And take from her what he wants without regard for who God created her to become as someone created in His likeness.
  • However, a man who is walking in right relationship with God needs a woman to whom he can give all the love he receives from The Lord. That is …
  • A man needs someone to adore.
  • A Special Someone to love outside himself.
  • Loving her keeps him from sinking into perpetual sadness.
    … and/or from becoming a domineering jerk.

The Love a man receives through his relationship with Christ is mystical. He is in Christ, and Christ is in him. That’s God with us, to be sure!

And as a man initiates and demonstrates that Love in his “real-life” relationship with his bride, it becomes the best, most practical display of Jesus‘ Love for His Bride.

Furthermore, woman’s response to her man’s Love
is just as important as her response to Christ.

To be continued …

All this took place to fulfill what The Lord had said through the prophet: “The virgin will conceive and give birth to a Son, and they will call him Immanuel” which means “God with us.” (Matthew 1:22-23)

Do you believe?

Do you believe what God believes? Or do you make decisions based on your current circumstances? Do you listen with your ears? Or do you listen with your heart? Do you rely on human logic? Or do you trust the voice of The Spirit?

Whoever watches the wind will not plant;
    whoever looks at the clouds will not reap.

As you do not know the path of the wind,
    or how the body is formed in a mother’s womb,
so you cannot understand the work of God,
    the Maker of all things.

Sow your seed in the morning,
    and at evening let your hands not be idle,
for you do not know which will succeed,
    whether this or that,
    or whether both will do equally well. (Ecclesiastes 11:4-6)

Put your trust in God, not in circumstances,
and surrender the outcome to Him.

He will not judge by what He sees with His eyes,
    or decide by what He hears with His ears. (Isaiah 11:3b)

This is what The Lord says, He who made the earth, The Lord Who formed it and established it — The Lord is His name:

“Call to Me, and I will answer you and tell you great and unsearchable things you do not know.” (Jeremiah 33:2-3)

Listen with your heart.

The person without the Spirit does not accept the things that come from the Spirit of God but considers them foolishness, and cannot understand them because they are discerned only through the Spirit. The person with the Spirit makes judgments about all things, but such a person is not subject to merely human judgments, for,

“Who has known the mind of the Lord
    so as to instruct him?”

But we have the mind of Christ. (1 Corinthians 2:14-16)

Let The Spirit teach you a new way to think.

Yes, it’s time we believe what God believes!


True Love is a Gift

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. (1 Corinthians 4:8a)


True Love doesn’t demand a return.
It only hopes for one.


The Truth about Love: You are Fearfully and Wonderfully made.

Both your biology and your upbringing have shaped who are so far.
And Jesus is growing you to be more like Him everyday.
So don’t let anybody else change you!

And, please, don’t you dare try to change Your Beloved! All of his (her)
likes and dislikes, gifts and talents, strengths and sensitivities
are parts of his (her) Totally Amazing Personality!

Love him (her) just as he (she) is. Jesus does.
Then if Your Beloved needs an upgrade, trust The Lord to do it.