The wise woman builds her house,
PROVERBS 14:1
but with her own hands the foolish one tears hers down.
Who is this Wise Woman?
- How does she think differently than the foolish one?
- How does she truly feel about her life & love?
- What does she do differently daily?
For more than a decade, I taught women about biblical, research-based ways to understand and be in partnership with the men they love.
That task completed (like it ever could be, right?), I decided to conduct a survey to find out what my readers would like next.
In particular, I wondered how I might find ways to encourage Christian men to build satisfying relationships through leadership filled with confidence & compassion (1 PETER 3:7)
What I learned surprised me.

One man I interviewed believed I most definitely should switch my focus to writing for men and suggested I begin by reading his all-time favorite Christian book about real manhood.
I took his suggestion seriously.
But as I dove into the material, I realized the author had failed to address a man’s need for a woman.
He placed the entire burden of EVERYTHING on himself ALONE, ignoring the partnership God created from the Beginning. GENESIS 2:18, 1 CORINTHIANS 11:9
That’s when I had one of those “suddenly” moments we read about in the Bible … the good kind … an instant awareness of amazing Truth as in LUKE 2:8-14.
Suddenly I realized that most women – including myself – don’t fully understand our value & our purpose in today’s world.
Therefore, I decided to continue my mission as-is: to seek a deeper understanding of what it means to be a woman in relationship with a man from a Christian perspective.
Another surprise …
An awful lot of books written for women fail to (or inadequately) address our biblical partnership with men, especially with our husbands. And I had another “suddenly” moment. Women – in God’s original design – are way more important on this earth than we’ve been led to believe!
Wisdom is Personified as a Woman!
Who knew, right? You did, of course. And women are a major theme in the Book of Proverbs. This one jumped out at me first:
The wise woman builds her house,
but with her own hands the foolish one tears hers down. PROVERBS 14:1
So who is this Wise Woman?
- How does she think differently than the foolish one?
- How does she truly feel about her life & love?
- What does she do differently daily?
Your Wisdom. Confidence. Influence.
- Do you want to grow in your Faith?
- Be more confident in your femininity?
- Learn how to co-create a joyful marriage?
Let’s Talk!
Schedule your free 30-minute video consultation!
Recent Content
When I first started specializing in the Psychology of Men & Marriage, people would often ask how it happened that a woman like me – who knew so much about men & romance – wasn’t...
I have often identified with Cinderella. She gets just one brief night of fantasy at The Royal Ball where she falls in love with the Handsome Prince, and he likewise falls in love with her....